Mrs N was leaving a long marriage but was struggling to imagine life without her husband. She knew she was very unhappy in her marriage, but the thought of getting divorced was daunting.
When your spouse had been in charge during the marriage.
She was very nervous about how much her life would change and how she would manage being on her own. During the long marriage, her husband had definitely been “in charge”, and he had not consulted her in decisions, simply choosing to tell her after the event. She had little experience in making her own decisions about things, as she had always gone along with what he had said.
Controlling spouse
She was nervous about how her husband would “behave” during the divorce process and predicted (quite correctly as it turned out), that he would make things difficult for her. She was seeking support and guidance to help her navigate through what she predicted would be a challenging time, both emotionally and in the legal process. She has kindly agreed to share her story to explain the work we have been doing together. Here is her story:
Making the decision to end your marriage.
What was going on for you that prompted you to get in touch with Rhiannon in the first place?
“Things were difficult at home and the differences between me and my husband, were becoming very plain. We had been married for 49yrs, so it wasn’t easy thinking about walking away. I had a few months thinking about what I wanted to do before my daughter recommended, I speak to Rhiannon. At that stage I still wasn’t sure whether pursuing a divorce was the right thing for me.”
Understanding your options
What in particular did you want help with when you first started working with Rhiannon?
“I wanted someone to put into words what I needed, and she was very clear where I stood and how to go about things.”
Guidance and support every step of the way.
What did you find most helpful about working with Rhiannon in the early stages of your separation/divorce?
“Rhiannon explains things very well and helps focus you in the right direction. She is also good at clarifying the various points you need to know.
How has working with Rhiannon helped you during the legal process of your divorce?
“She explains things step by step, so I understand what’s coming next in the legal process.”
What have been any other benefits of working with Rhiannon?
“She has a great sense of humour which helps as emotions very much get in the way of thinking clearly.”
Saving you time, money and stress in your divorce.
What would you say to someone considering getting a divorce as to how Rhiannon might be able to help them?
“Rhiannon is there from beginning to end, she explains everything very well. She is half the price of a solicitor, so if you have any questions (and believe me you will have many), she answers them straight away, so although you do have two payments each month (one from your solicitor and one from her) she is a very valuable member of your team.”
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