Welcome to the Rhiannon Ford Divorce Support Blog
Separation and divorce can feel overwhelming; there’s so much to process, plan, and understand. My blog is here to help you make sense of it all.
Drawing on my experience as a divorce consultant and former family law solicitor, I share practical advice, emotional guidance, and professional insights to help you navigate every stage of the divorce journey, from the first steps of separation to life after divorce.
Here, you’ll find straightforward articles on topics such as communication with your ex-partner, preparing for mediation or court, co-parenting, and rebuilding your confidence. Each post is written to offer calm, constructive support, helping you feel more informed and in control.
Whether you’re just starting to explore your options or are already partway through the process, I hope you’ll find the information here reassuring, relevant, and easy to put into practice.
If you’d like to learn more about the services I offer, visit my 1-to-1 Support page. If you are a new client, book a phone clinic session.
Mrs P’s Story: Discovery of Infidelity After a Long Marriage and the Loss of a Planned Retirement Together.
Mrs P was recommended to me by her family law solicitor. She had been married for 42 years, together almost 50 years. Both she and her husband were in their 60s with 2 adult children. She sadly had discovered that her husband had been having affairs and was...
Mrs G’s Story: Navigating a difficult divorce from her wife.
Mrs G had been married to her wife for 5 years, together for 9 years. She was very unhappy and was looking for help and support to navigate ending her marriage. The couple had a 3yr old daughter. The client was a successful business owner and the main...
Mrs E’s Story: A husband coming out as gay after a long-term marriage.
Mrs E had been married for 35 years, and both she and her husband were in their 60s. Her husband had recently retired and had been the main breadwinner in the marriage. He was a businessman, used to dealing with documentation and working with professionals,...
There Is No Such Thing as a Common Law Husband or Wife in England and Wales
One of the biggest misconceptions I come across is the belief that if you live together for long enough, you become a "common law husband" or "common law wife." Unfortunately, this is a myth. In England and Wales, there is no legal status known as a common law...
Why Every Unmarried Couple Needs an Up-to-Date Will
If you're living with your partner but you're not married or in a civil partnership, having an up-to-date Will is one of the most important legal documents you can have. Many couples wrongly believe that if they have lived together for years, bought a home together or...
What is a Cohabitation Agreement?
Living Together? Don't Assume the Law Will Protect You More couples than ever are choosing to live together without getting married or entering into a civil partnership. Unfortunately, many people still believe in the myth of the "common law marriage." The truth is...
Proposed Changes to the Law for Unmarried Couples in England and Wales (2026)
Could the law finally be changing for unmarried couples? In June 2026, the UK Government announced proposals that could give unmarried couples in England and Wales greater legal protection when they separate. If you've seen headlines suggesting that "common law...
This is a Game Changer During Divorce When You Have ADHD
If you have ADHD, you probably know the frustration of having important thoughts, ideas or tasks disappear from your mind just as quickly as they arrived. During divorce, this challenge can become even more pronounced. Divorce involves an enormous amount of...
How to Approach Telling Your Work Colleagues You’re Going Through divorce
Divorce is a deeply personal experience, but it can have a real impact on your professional life. Knowing how to approach conversations at work can make this transition smoother and help you maintain both your wellbeing and your performance. Here’s how to handle it in...
What to Avoid When Discussing Your Divorce at Work
When you’re going through a divorce, emotions can run high, and that can make workplace conversations feel more difficult to manage. Knowing what not to do is just as important as knowing what to say. Here are the key pitfalls to avoid to protect both your...
Divorce Advice for Professionals: A Practical Guide to Navigating Separation
Divorce is one of the most disruptive experiences a person can face, personally, professionally, and emotionally. For high-performing professionals in particular, the pressure to “hold it together” can make the process even more isolating. You’re expected to keep...
How to tell your parents you are getting a divorce
Telling your parents you are getting divorced can feel overwhelming. Even as adults, many people worry about disappointing their parents, facing judgment, or managing strong reactions. As a divorce consultant supporting clients across England and Wales, I regularly...
How to Tell Your Friends You Are Getting Divorced
Divorce can feel socially exposing. One of the biggest fears clients express is: “Will friends take sides?” “Will I lose my social circle?” “How do I stop gossip?” As a divorce consultant working with clients throughout England and Wales, I help people manage this...
What to Expect at Your FDR Hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution)
If you have an FDR hearing coming up, you may be wondering what actually happens on the day. Although it is a court hearing, it works very differently from other court hearings. The goal of an FDR is to help both parties reach a financial settlement, and much of the...
How to Navigate Divorce During Menopause
Divorce is one of the most stressful life events you can experience. Menopause is another. When they happen at the same time, it can feel overwhelming. You may be dealing with legal meetings, financial uncertainty and emotional upheaval, all while coping with brain...
Myths About Family Mediation in England and Wales
Busting the Biggest Myths About Family Mediation in England and Wales If you are going through a separation or divorce, you may already have strong opinions about family mediation, often based on what friends, family, or online forums have said. As a divorce...
How to Find and Choose a Family Mediator in England and Wales
If you’re facing separation or divorce in England and Wales, you may already be wondering about mediation; what it is, how it works, and how to choose the right family mediator. Mediation can offer a much more practical, cost-effective, and less stressful way of...
Guide to the Different Types of Family Mediation in England and Wales
A practical guide to the different types of family mediation in England and Wales If you’re separating or divorcing, “mediation” can sound like one single thing. In reality, it’s a flexible process with several different formats. The right type depends on your...