One of the biggest misconceptions I come across is the belief that if you live together for long enough, you become a "common law husband" or "common law wife." Unfortunately, this is a myth. In England and Wales, there is no legal status known as a common law...
Why Every Unmarried Couple Needs an Up-to-Date Will
If you're living with your partner but you're not married or in a civil partnership, having an up-to-date Will is one of the most important legal documents you can have. Many couples wrongly believe that if they have lived together for years, bought a home together or...
What is a Cohabitation Agreement?
Living Together? Don't Assume the Law Will Protect You More couples than ever are choosing to live together without getting married or entering into a civil partnership. Unfortunately, many people still believe in the myth of the "common law marriage." The truth is...
Proposed Changes to the Law for Unmarried Couples in England and Wales (2026)
Could the law finally be changing for unmarried couples? In June 2026, the UK Government announced proposals that could give unmarried couples in England and Wales greater legal protection when they separate. If you've seen headlines suggesting that "common law...
How to introduce the kids to your new partner
How to introduce your children to your new partner needs to be approached in a sensitive manner. Whilst you may be excited about your new partner, remember this is another big adjustment for the children to process and accept after their parents separated/divorced....
Has your ex had a baby with their new partner?
It can be difficult to come to terms with your ex having a new family. And, it is important to establish how the kids feel about it. There will be a period of adjustment for everyone involved: Has your ex been considerate about their feelings and got them involved...
When is the right time to introduce the kids to a new partner?
When is the right time to introduce the kids to a new partner? There is no perfect time. What to consider Whether you are confident(as much as you can be) that the new partner is a permanent fixture in your life and not just someone you are casually dating. You have...
What to Consider When Moving In With Your Partner
What to consider when moving in with your new partner. It is very common for couples to live together before (or instead of) getting married. It is important to think with your head as well as your heart before planning to move in with your partner. Both parties need...
Advice for People Getting Married
Advice for people getting married from a divorce consultant. People just about to embark on married life, need to be smart about their finances. Understanding your partner's finances The most common worry many of my clients have when they come to see me is money. It...









