When a relationship ends, one of the most important decisions separating parents face is how to share time with their children. In England and Wales, there is no fixed legal formula; parenting arrangements are guided by what’s in the child’s best interests. In...
Divorce is a challenging and emotional journey, and when children are involved, the stakes are even higher. Navigating parenting arrangements, managing conflict with your ex, and supporting your children through this transition can feel overwhelming. This is where...
Over recent years, I have seen a steady increase in the number of neurodivergent clients as well as parents of neurodivergent children seeking support during divorce and separation. For many, the legal process can feel overwhelming, unpredictable, and emotionally...
Birthdays are important milestones for children and parents alike. After separation or divorce, planning birthdays can feel tricky, but with careful communication and thoughtful planning, everyone can enjoy the day. Children's Birthdays Prioritise the Child’s...
1. Plan Ahead and Prepare Emotionally Be clear on the reasons for the divorce. You do not need to go into all the details, but you should have a simplified, child-friendly explanation for why the divorce is happening. This might be something like, "Mum and Dad...
When parents separate, communication can be one of the biggest hurdles - especially when emotions are still raw or trust has broken down. If you and your ex-partner struggle to stay on the same page, co-parenting can feel like a constant battle. This is where...
This guest blog is from Marcie Shaoul, the founder of The Co-Parent Way. Marcie will explain what co-parenting is and how to navigate it. "You’re splitting up and you have children. You might not want to be connected to your ex any more, but the fact is, you will be....
Divorce can be an incredibly challenging time for everyone involved, but it can be especially difficult for children. They often face a whirlwind of emotions and uncertainty, and as parents, it’s essential to support them through this transition. Here are some key...
Divorce is a challenging journey, especially when children are involved. It's natural for parents to feel guilt about the impact their decision may have on their children's lives. However, dwelling in this guilt serves no one. Instead, it's essential to acknowledge...
The role of parents in a child's life is unparalleled, as they serve as the first teachers, role models, and pillars of emotional support. Both a mother and a father bring unique strengths, perspectives, and nurturing qualities that contribute to a child's holistic...
Divorce is a challenging experience for any family, but when teenagers are involved, it can be especially tough. Adolescence is already a time of significant change and emotional turmoil, and adding the strain of a parental divorce can exacerbate these challenges....
Divorce is a significant life event that affects not only the couple involved but also their children. When parents decide to end their marriage, it can bring about a range of emotions and challenges for children, depending on their age and developmental stage....
A Child Arrangements Order is a legally binding document issued by the family court that determines arrangements for a child or children following the separation or divorce of their parents. They were formerly known as residence and contact orders. Essentially, a...
There are many challenges for an adult child of divorce, and I am talking from personal experience. I was 27 years old when my parents got divorced, and working as a divorce solicitor. I had been aware for some time that there were serious problems in my parents’...
3 options for separated parents to resolve the children arrangements. When parents separate, they will need to decide how best to continue to parent the children moving forward. The parents have a choice of routes they can take to reach an agreement for the...
Parenting is tough at any time, but it is particularly challenging for parents who are separated. They will be in each other's lives, for the rest of their own lives, because they have children together. So, they will need to find a way to work together for the sake...
There does not seem to be enough support and advice for teenagers of divorcing parents. Divorce can be a difficult and emotional time for everyone involved, including teenagers who are often caught in the middle. Here is my advice to help teenagers cope with their...
What do you do if the children refuse to see their other parent? When children refuse to see their other parent after a divorce, it can be a difficult situation for everyone involved. Here are some steps you can take: Listen to your children. Take the time to listen...